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Many of you may have questions regarding how parenting time (formerly called "visitation") matters are decided in Michigan.

At our Michigan family law office, a Michigan divorce and parenting time lawyer can help you navigate through the legal process of a Michigan child custody case.

The following is some information regarding parenting time laws in Michigan that you may find helpful.

If both the father and the mother agree to a Michigan parenting time arrangement, they can agree to enter a written parenting time order with the Michigan Court that states the terms of the arrangement.

If the parenting time order complies with Michigan law, the Court will generally enter the agreed upon order.

If both parents cannot agree as to Michigan parenting time, the “best interests of the child factors”, of the Michigan Child Custody Act, are the factors used by the Court making a parenting time decision. 

• Usually, the matter is first referred to the Friend of the Court for an investigation and recommendation.  Sometimes the Friend of the Court will charge for this investigation and recommendation.
• A recommendation by the Friend of the Court is not binding, but is a good indicator of what the Judge in your case may do.
• If one of parents disagrees to the recommendation made by the Friend of the Court, then the matter is either scheduled for an evidentiary hearing or a trial before the Judge.

The best interests of the child factors to be considered, evaluated, and determined by the Court are found in the Michigan statutes at MCL 722.23 and are as follows:

• The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties involved and the child.
• The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion or creed, if any.
• The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care or other remedial care recognized and permitted under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs.
• The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity.
• The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes.
• The moral fitness of the parties involved.
• The mental and physical health of the parties involved.
• The home, school, and community record of the child.
• The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express preference.
• The willingness and ability of each of the parties to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents.
• Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed by the child.
• Any other factor considered by the court to be relevant to a particular child custody dispute.

Some people mistakenly believe that when a child reaches a certain age in Michigan that child may choose what parenting time they should have with each parent.  That is not true.

• In Michigan the child must be an adult, age 18, before he/she can decide with whom they will live.
• Although factor 9, listed above, considers the reasonable preference of the child, it is only one factor evaluated among the others, and it is not the deciding factor.
• So, while the preference of the child is taken into consideration, it is not given any more weight than any other factor.
• However, on a practical note, most police departments in Michigan will not enforce the return of a 16 year old to one parent when that 16 year old is with the other parent.

You can find information about custody and parenting time in Michigan at the sites below:

• State of Michigan Parenting Time Investigation Manual -- Excellent State of Michigan publication written for Friend of the Court personnel regarding parenting time investigations
• Michigan Custody Guideline  -- State of Michigan publication regarding custody and Michigan Parenting Time Guidelines.

Some Courts have recommended Parenting time (formerly called "visitation") schedules: 

• WAYNE COUNTY PARENTING TIME: WAYNE COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT recommends  CO-PARENTING SCHEDULE on the WAYNE COUNTY FRIEND OF THE COURT WEBSITE.
• MACOMB COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT: provides a detailed REASONABLE AND LIBERAL PARENTING TIME SCHEDULE on the MACOMB COUNTY FRIEND OF THE COURT WEBSITE.
• OAKLAND COUNTY PARENTING TIME:  OAKLAND COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT does not provide a specific schedule, however when a general parenting time schedule is recommended it is usually quite similar to the MACOMB COUNTY REASONABLE AND LIBERAL PARENTING TIME SCHEDULE.  OAKLAND COUNTY FRIEND OF THE COURT does provide PARENTING TIME GUIDELINES.
• LAPEER COUNTY PARENTING TIME: LAPEER COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT provides a detailed PARENTING TIME POLICY that can be found on the LAPEER COUNTY FRIEND OF THE COURT WEBSITE.
• LIVINGSTON COUNTY PARENTING TIME: LIVINGSTON COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT provides a detailed PARENTING TIME GUIDELINE on the LIVINGSTON COUNTY FRIEND OF THE COURT WEBSITE.